healing the stories that shape how we serve
leadership coaching + consulting for sustainable service
STORY-HEALING | MORAL IMAGINATION | COLLECTIVE CARE
Nobody tells you when you choose a career in service that you were never meant to sacrifice your humanity in the name of mission.
It took me years of unlearning to understand that the exhaustion, the trauma, the moral injury, the growing distance between my values and my daily reality weren't signs that I wasn't cut out for this work. They were the predictable outcomes of trying to serve inside systems where the ethos of care enshrined within beautiful mission statements never extended to the people doing the work.
What I've learned on the other side of that unlearning is this: reclaiming our humanity and making service sustainable isn't an individual burden — it's a shared responsibility.
In this era of polycrisis, where a convergence of overlapping global, political, ecological, economic, and institutional breakdowns that amplify and accelerate each other, these pressures don't just live "out there." They show up in our bodies, our relationships, and our capacity to care. They create ruptures — moments when our values, integrity, or sense of purpose collide with systems that ask us to fragment ourselves, leaving marks on individuals and organizations alike, shaping how we show up, connect, and lead.
When we name the realities of the polycrisis — and the ruptures they create — we open space for clarity, compassion, and choice. We stop internalizing systemic harm as a personal deficit and start to see it for what it is: an ecosystem of disconnection, dehumanization, and trauma.
humanitarian \hyü-ma-nə-'ter-ē-ən
1. a person working to alleviate the pain and suffering of others.
2. involved with or connected with improving people's lives and bettering the world.
After almost two decades working alongside and leading other humanitarians, I believe those of us who choose to work in in service of others love the work and are compelled by a common desire to alleviate the suffering of other humans — even if it means bearing our own pain in shame and silence.
But those same two decades of experience have shown me that service doesn't have to come at this cost.
At Roots in the Clouds we’re supporting leaders and organizations who are ready to reimagine what it means to be of service in the face of vicarious trauma, moral injury, and institutional betrayal.
two pathways
i’m here for my organization
for government, humanitarian, and nonprofit organizations ready to address root causes of harm and support their staff.
i’m here as an individual
for mission-driven professionals navigating oral injury, institutional betrayal, systemic grief, or other exhaustion in an era of polycrisis.
Tell Me My Story
"What if the service path we've chosen is actually an invitation—to see and heal and love and embrace our own humanity through the stories of the people we're serving? And what if that healing could happen at both the individual and organizational levels?"
— Dimple Dhabalia - Tell Me My Story
Challenging the Narrative of Service Before Self
Written for mission-driven professionals who have dedicated their lives to serving in systems that were never designed to honor their full humanity — and who are ready to reclaim the story of what it means to serve without sacrifice.
upcoming engagements
april 2026
From Restoration to Regeneration - Spiritual Ecology and Collective Care as Response to Collective Moral Injury and Institutional Betrayal – Durham University, International Centre for Moral Injury | Durham, United Kingdom
Holding Pain and Possibility Together - Simple Grief Rituals for Collective Care in Fractured Times – Yale Women’s Mental Health Conference | New Haven, CT, USA
Challenging the Narrative of Service Before Self – Beyond Aid Summit - The Women Behind the Work | Virtual

